August 13, 2013
Service Date: September 8, 2013
Obituaries » BETSY ECKFELDT
ECKFELDT, BETSY, died peacefully in her home in Roxbury on August 13. She was 63 years old and had cancer. Betsy is survived by her husband, Norm Vandal; her mother, Phyllis; her daughter, Emily; her son, Nathaniel; her son-in-law, Zubin; her daughter-in-law, Lindsey; one grandson; and her brother, Grant, and his family. Her sister, Cindy, and father, Grant, are deceased. Betsy shared a home with Norm that they began building 40 years ago, surrounded by their flower and vegetable gardens, and trails through the woods where they walked, skied and snowshoed. Betsy loved colorful clothes and jewelry, making fruit pies and jams, and visiting her mom’s home in Maine. Her life was enriched by the countless number of children she taught, read to and inspired; her devoted and varied community of friends; and by her three tabby cats, which she nurtured. Born and raised in Fitchburg, Mass., Betsy traveled to Stowe every weekend to ski with her family, attended Applewild School and St. Mary’s in the Mountains, then Middlebury College, majoring in elementary education and French. After graduating in 1971, she lived briefly in England, before returning to Vermont. While working at a small ski lodge in Warren, she met Norm, a fellow “back-to-the-lander.” Soon afterward, they began building a life together in Roxbury, growing their own food and raising two children, while Norm made period furniture and Betsy dried flowers to sell on a cart she parked at farmers markets and craft shows. Betsy taught preschool at Waitsfield Elementary School for 24 years and briefly at both Warren and Moretown elementary schools. She ran Spring Hill School summer camps. She inspired many and was excited in her incessant pursuit of inclusive, enriching, discovery-based classrooms. She traveled to Reggio Emilia, Italy, to study their city’s creative methods of teaching children. For years she was a library trustee and grant writer, and in 1993, she began co-creating literacy programs for the VT Humanities Council. One of Betsy’s greatest pleasures was teaching yoga and mindfulness meditation to youngsters, and she attended a Kripalu yoga teacher training in the fall of 2011, after retiring from Waitsfield Elementary School. She was also a certified YogaKids instructor. In her career as a teacher, she learned how helpful yoga postures and mindfulness can be to children, particularly those with special needs, and she planned to consult part time in schools and to teach privately as part of what she fondly called the “Vermont Mindfulness Movement,” a curriculum she was developing when she found out she had cancer in spring 2012. Betsy’s warmth, creativity, generosity and open heart were attributes she shared wherever she went. She taught us about living and dying gracefully. Her twinkling eyes, enormous smile, red hair and boundless energy will be remembered by many. A ceremony and potluck celebration to honor Betsy’s life will be held at Knoll Farm/Center for Whole Communities, in Waitsfield on Sunday, Sept. 8, at 3pm, rain or shine. Please bring flowers (no stems) for a community ritual art mandala and a potluck hors d’oeuvre to share. Please carpool and consider dressing to honor Betsy.